Life has a funny way of reminding us that we’re not always in control. Sometimes, no matter how much we plan, strategize, or map out our futures, the universe has a different idea. And here’s the thing: often, it’s the little, seemingly insignificant steps that lead us to the most meaningful destinations.
When I look back on my journey, I can pinpoint moments that felt like detours at the time. Decisions that seemed small, inconsequential, or even like setbacks turned out to be the foundation for something much greater. Those moments taught me the value of trusting the process.
The Plan You Don’t See
We’re wired to want answers, clear paths, and tangible progress. It’s human nature. But the universe often operates on a wavelength we can’t quite hear. It sends whispers instead of shouts, nudges instead of shoves. And sometimes, it feels like we’re wandering aimlessly—but we’re not.
Every choice, every effort, and even every misstep is part of a grander plan. The problem is, we’re so focused on the big picture that we forget to notice the brushstrokes. It’s in those tiny details where the magic lies.
The Power of Small Steps
Taking small, consistent actions might feel like you’re inching along when you want to sprint. But those steps are what build momentum. They’re what sharpen your skills, grow your confidence, and pave the way for opportunities you can’t yet see.
Here’s the truth: It takes years of hard work to be an overnight success. What looks like an instant breakthrough is often the culmination of years of small, quiet steps. The key is to trust that every step matters, even if it doesn’t make sense in the moment.
Letting Go of Control
I’ve learned that surrendering doesn’t mean giving up. It means leaning into the unknown and trusting that the universe has your back. When you let go of the need to control every outcome, you open yourself up to possibilities that are bigger and better than anything you could have planned.
If you’re feeling stuck, lost, or unsure, take a deep breath. Remind yourself that you’re exactly where you’re meant to be. Trust the process. Keep taking those small steps. The universe is working behind the scenes, orchestrating a plan far greater than you can imagine.
Finding Meaning in the Journey
As a father, husband, adventurer, and someone who has faced both triumph and loss, I’ve come to believe that life’s beauty lies in its unpredictability. The stars don’t align all at once; they align one at a time. And when they do, it’s breathtaking.
So, here’s my challenge to you: Take the next small step. Trust that it’s leading you somewhere incredible. Pay attention to the whispers, the nudges, and the quiet ways the universe speaks to you. The journey might not unfold the way you expect, but that’s where the magic happens.
Keep stepping, keep trusting, and keep learning. The universe has a plan for you.
Photo by Martin Jernberg
